Okay everybody, once again I'm going to embarrass myself with one of my trademark naive questions. I'm seventeen, and in my limited experience of sex, I found that it wasn't all it's cracked up to be. A few moments of physical ecstasy - so what? I didn't think it was worth all the social highwire-walking and emotional purgatory I had to go through to experience that. Call me what you will (probably a pathetic idealist :rolleyes: ), but I always thought sex was about intimacy. Girls my age, it seems, don't want that - all they want is a quickie in the bushes after the party. If that's all that sex is about, I'm not interested. Can somebody tell me whether this will change when I get older?

And I'm really sorry if I sound like I'm trying to play the noble disillusioned moralist here, but I'm honestly not trying to. :o :o