If you want to get something done its a good idea to keep it all under your own controll. The idea of a band where everyone is best friends and everyone participates equaly in everything is a very romantic one - but also extremely rare in reality. Once you start arguing with eachother about a single note or a chord like "no i dont like that chord here" or "no - i see it as a 5/4 rythm" it starts to be uninterresting and unproductive.

I tend to sit at home, write my own songs and after i´m done i go and search for the best and most prefessional dudes i can find, because i know that i can rely on peeps with experience. And i know that they will do what they are told to instead of starting arguements.