Hi to everyone, I am Alex from Montréal, Canada. This is first time in my life I try to learn playing guitar and I already have a huge struggle. My fretting hand , I absolutely have almost no control over the fingers, especially how teacher show in the video lesson, each finger suppose to cover each fret parallel to each other, mine are all tilted in opposite directions and I have particularly hard time to cintrol 3rd finger (during spider legs exercise) Any suggestions how to train your fretting fingers stay more parallel to eachother like a fork :) because everytime I try to spread them to keep 1 finger per fret they curv in to a bowl shape and I can not control them to remain straight. Thank you for help in advance.

Alex