Nice to meet you. I'm just slightly ahead of the spider fingers 🤗 You're moving along quickly! I'm only doing around 20min to half hour a day. If it's any consolation my fingers wouldn't sit on one string without interfering with another for ages. I can play Simple C, G, A minor and E now (though transitions are still very dodgy).
Prior to this I also had thoughts like 'I can't do this as my fingers don't work, my fingers are too fat, my hands are wrong, the guitars too big!' This was just over a week ago.. so you're doing ok! 😊