Originally Posted by: SteveHey[p]Sorry for your frustration!My frustration is what is the ideal thumb position for begineers?
Your thumb should be placed directly opposite your fingers on the back of the neck. And it can and should move to stay opposite your fingers depending on which strings your fingers are on. Your thumb should provide just enough pressure to keep your hand firmly in place on the neck and opposing pressure to help your fingers hold down any fretted notes.
Sometimes beginners squeeze too hard with their thumb and, or their fingers. Actually, this is sometimes a problem for some skilled guitarists, too! Remember that you want just enough pressure to get the job done. Not enough pressure will result in a poor sounding chord. But too much pressure is wasted effort and can over time hinder your ability to move quickly and effectively to the next chord or hand position.
I demonstrate this in the 3rd lesson of this tutorial:
https://www.guitartricks.com/tutorial.php?input=605
Hope this helps! Please ask more if necessary. Keep practicing!