What an awesome thread! I haven't read through it all yet, skipped to the end to join in but I'm going to read the whole thing because I'm seeing a lot of good help and support.
I'm 59 and started playing 4 days ago. I've wanted to learn for years but just hadn't gotten around to it. I came to the forum to see if anyone else had trouble placing their fingers without interfering with the neighboring string and I see I'm not alone there! I guess I'll just keep working.
I'm having a blast so far. In 4 days, I've managed to get through a bunch of the basics and I'm playing a one-note version of Ode To Joy, which makes me feel like I'm getting somewhere. I'm very glad I found this community.