So that's why I was hoping a video would be out there... kinda like a "hand-holding" from an expert player telling him: "It's real easy to play guitar over your head during simple solos. Here's something to try..." or "When you're doing a bend on a note, remember that the whole guitar is an extension of that act. Use the mass of the guitar to your advantage, pushing it away and pulling it back. You'll find it not only makes the bend a lot easier and powerful, it also gets the audience really excited."
That kind of stuff.