I also don't get the guitar virginity thing though that is perhaps because Im an old fart ! Im still trying (after nearly 20 years) to play as many different guitars as possible as I want to:
a) Find out what is out there and
b) Find out what I like. I have one or two ideas however Im still pleasantly surprised from time to time!

I also think it is important to remember that it is the way you play that is important, yes the guitar, amp, cables etc etc contribute to the overall tone however at the end of the day it is you and not the guitar that people will listen to.
Having said that, I have seen several homemade guitars and all of them have been dogs (that is…….. very bad). Im not saying that there aren't some really nice scratch built or hot rodded ones out there however the people at Fender / Gibson etc build guitars everyday for years and years, that is not the sort of experience you pick up overnight reading a book......

If you have a nice guitar and some cash to spend, well go for it !!!!! However, if the funds are limited, it is possible to end up with an very unplayable and expensive dog!

Anyway I hope you totally enjoy it Dude as shopping for guitars is one of my favorite things !!!