I agree about the snobbery thing 100% and not from just "seasoned" players either. I think too many people have become armchair experts due to forums. Like anything with the internet, you have to take the good with the bad.

The only thing I would say about starter packs though, is brand. I'm not saying has to be top shelf but when it's a no name, the chances of getting something playable drops way down. Then there's usually no customer service either.

I generally say buy all the guitar you can and if you have a pc (internet too) just download a free amp simulator. I'm using that right now after getting back into learning after life got in the way. It's not great but on par with a 20-30 dollar practice amp and left me room to buy an entry Gibson (Fusion SG).