its all to do with timing, start slow and raise to a climax or mutliple climaxes in the solo. Consider playing to someone as you are making love....a technique Led Zeppelin encorperated...e.i. Stairway to heaven. The single most important complaint women have about music is the same as love making,....lack of foreplay...or the pe-solos, warm the audience with nice romantic emotional legato...then let nature take it's place from there,...then wind it all down and carress them to a smooth safe warm emotional landing. People don't always like to be emotionally rammed by music and then left cold,...especially a lovely women.

[Edited by nechako on 06-17-2002 at 01:43 PM]