Actully, I do not want to be discovered, I just think that it's normal nowadays to have your music available on the net. I have had more than 10000 visits on my personal site over the last 8 months, and some of my songs have been downloaded several hundred times.
As for telling me I am cocky, you are right, my wife-to-be always tells me I can sound like a self satisfied prick when I talk about my musical skills. I usually answer that I never lie, and she knows about it. Jaco once said 'it ain't bragging if you can back it up' and I live to this standard. But I do not want to fall all over myself telling I suck while I know I don't!! :D