Yup a wider neck is definetly a good option. You should go to your local music store and try a bunch until you find one that fits your hands. I'm on the other side of the road. I got some skinny "average" size fingers and I tend to like neck that are a bit smaller then the average because I like to wrap my thumb over the neck to play chords and embelishments the "Hendrix way" and it makes it a lot easier for me (he had very long fingers). Sometimes just a little 1/16th of an inch at the nut of the guitar makes a huge difference in your playing and comfort.