Below are three links, they lead to some articles Wildwoman1313 has posted on the site. If you have not read them, I’m sure you will find something useful in each of them to help you over this stuck spot.
http://www.guitartricks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=37902
http://www.guitartricks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=39329
http://www.guitartricks.com/forum/showthread.php?t=39200