You're learning faster than I had guessed.
It does not sound like you will stay with them. It is Hard to get 4 or 5 guys (people) that get a long, like the same music and tone . That's why its said to be kind of magic when it happens.
Going to make new contacts after only two jams, is not rude. Its good business. It kind of like job hunting, you need to get your resume out there.
Whether you like what you’re playing or not, play it the best you can. Make your resume worth remembering.