What kind of music do you play? If it's a place with a little slippery and bad acoustics. Make sure that your don't play with to much Mids on the gear. You should turn mid down a bit and try walk around the room to soundcheck to get it just right. Remember that if you can't bear the sound yourself, there is a big chance that the others won't bear with it either.
People that aint used to listening to loud music often gets their ears killed by mid frequency's.
At least this is my experience.

Thats my 2 cents :) Have fun dude!