Welcome to GT, I'll be happy to help any way I can, so be sure to let me know if you have any questions.
I always learn the chord progression of a song first, and then it's much easier to tell what's going on with the rest of it. The trainer's can be a useful tool, being able to slow it down is a great way to figure some things out, but of course they won't help your fingers work any faster.
Have you trried using some fills in between your chords, little fills can give you time to set your fingers. It's just a thought, and if you give us some examples, maybe we can figure out some other tips to help you.
JD
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Bending The Flat 7 To The 1
Chicken Pickin'
Hybrid Picking Exercises: One Finger
Hybrid Picking Progression In A
Double Stop Progression In A
Crosspicking Combinations
Behind The Nut Bends On The G String
Behind The Nut Bends On The B String
My Lessons
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Latest Tutorials
Bending The Flat 7 To The 1
Chicken Pickin'
Hybrid Picking Exercises: One Finger
Hybrid Picking Progression In A
Double Stop Progression In A
Crosspicking Combinations
Behind The Nut Bends On The G String
Behind The Nut Bends On The B String
My Lessons
http://www.youtube.com/jdfenderbender
myspace.com/jdjarrell
myspace.com/guitartrickscountry
twitter.com/jdfenderbender
facebook.com/jdjarrell