Thanks Razbo , I went to a jam session yesterday and played for 2 hours . all the guys there where more experienced then I was and I told them these issues as well and they agreed with what you said .

They've also told me not to get discouraged especially about the bar chords and notation because they went through those same hard ships within their first 2 years of playing .

Just takes lots of practice and patience and with that passion to serve as a motivation I'll be able to play any chord and become a good guitarist in due time .