David, in Holland you see mostly girls on the dancefloor and belive me, i jump around a lot when i'm going out. Here a lot of guys stay aside, because they think they don't look cool when they are having fun, they're stupid.
And i never had problems dating guys, but i do play guitar, because i like it and i think that is the only reason why you should play anyway. I think when you play to be sexy you won't have fun playing and you will never become good and i think it's only sexy when you can show of a little.