As for the stage fright, well I have to say although I was nervous I felt on my game. Yes there were bum notes here and there but in a 2, and a half hour set (including 20 minutes of encores,sorry if I sound smug:)) you'd expcect it!
Rick, I had a couple of beers which helped:)
As for the download, well I did use it, and I have to say I felt very comfortable in front of the audience so I'd say for the $12 that it cost me it was worth it, so if anyone else suffers from nerves, even if it's a best man speech, it might be worth giving it a go. Here's the link again if you can't be bothered to go back to the beginning of the post:
www.beatmyphobia.com/musician-and-singing-nerves
Stay cool guys and see you around.
Shayman