Originally Posted by: julie4bamaI also had the same problem when I first started to learn that chord, but now I play it with ease. The thing that helped me the most is Lisa McCormick's spider fingers exercises. They help build strength and reach. Check them out, and you will see significant improvement within a few days. Good luck and happy guitar playing. Here is the link to these exercises:

http://www.guitartricks.com/tutorial.php?input=621