As far as some strings not making sound or being muffled while you play chords this caused by touching those strings with your finger. Make sure you hold the strings down with your finger tips. remember it gets better with time. a few months from now youll be thinkink I cant believe I had problems with that.
Go to a guitar store and buy a begginers book for chords it should explain to you were to place your fingers and start you off with the right chords. And if for some reason you cant do that then go to shareware and type in guitar on the search engine and that should take you to downloads for chords.
The number system you spoke of is called tablature or most commonly known as tabs. in short the numbers represent what fret you place your fingers in. Try these chord out for starters.
C chord
e_____________ x= dont strum this string
b__1__________
g_____________ Make sure to use your pointer finger in the
d______2______ first fret. middle finger in second fret
a__________3__ and what ever the fingers called next to
e______x______ you pinkey in the third fret.
G Chord
e_________3___
b_________3___ use your middle finger on top string 3rd
g_____________ fret, pointer finger in 2nd fret, on the
d_____________ (B) string third fret use your third finger
a______2______ and on the bottom string 3rd fret use your
e_________3___ pinkey.
D chord
e____2_______
b_______3____ Middle finger-bottom string
g____2_______ pointer finger 3rd string 2nd fret
d____________ 3rd finger 2nd string 3rd fret
a_____x______
e_____x______ X= dont hit string
A chord
e____________
b_____2______ 3rd finger second string
g_____2______ pointer finger 3rd string
d_____2______ middle finger 4th string all in 2nd fret
a____________ X= dont hit this string
e_____x______
E7 chord
e____________
b____________ middle finger 2nd fret 5th string
g_1__________ pointer finger 1st fret 3rd string
d____________
a____2_______
e____________
Hope this helps!
two wrongs dont make a right but three lefts do.