I say this from experience. Part of the reason that I'm a lousy guitar player after 20 years of playing is that I didn't have patience. I didn't like playing a song over and over and over and over in slow motion (still don't, to be honest), and I figured that playing the song I wanted to play half-assed was better than the alternatives. Now I really want to go back and learn like I should have, but I've got a ton of bad habits that are going to make it a struggle.
I hope you take the advice here and use it. I would have loved to have had Internet and a forum like this when I started. I give you tons of credit for having guts. I've got about 20 years experience on you, and I'm not about to post my version of Raining Blood. :D
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