One lessons at a time I guess. Total obsession. Endless patience.
The only way I know to learn something is keep working on it until you can do it, and always go for the harder stuff. Keep pushing yourself and realize that guitar is a long term thing. Ya can't just try something for a couple of days and give up. You've gotta be willing to keep going until you get it.
A lot of guitar stuff is done subconsciously, so always push yourself for a coupla days on something, then rest for a few days to let it sink in before going back to it and pushing it to the next level.
Maybe it's something physical with the brain or something but it's like you're burning new pathways into your brain and it takes a few days for them to heal before you can use them.