As far as rhythm, I like how my Mel Bay chord book I've had for years breaks them up. For every particular chord name it lists forms under Melody (treble strings emphasized), Inside (yep, the inside 5 strings), Rhythm (as many strings as possible), and Bottom 4. But with another chord book that arranges them another way, it's still up to you how much you use of any shape. Like just because it shows the F major bar chord using all strings, doesn't mean you have to use all of them and you can find your own shapes.
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