Originally Posted by: schmangeOk, let's face it.
Guys get into their teens and the first thing on their minds is how to impress girls... So they get a guitar and a band.
Jock guys are also obligated to be the agressors when it comes to asking girls out and compared to girls, most guys are too shy to make the first move.
Especially when there's a bunch of asshole other guys out there who treat girls like crap and make the first move anyways.
So the nice guys end up hiding in their bedrooms listening to music and learning guitar with the fantasy of meeting that special girl who'll come along and appreciate them
Meantime...those same girls are being hit on by the asshole guys who have the nerve to make the first move.

Hence the reason that hot girls end up going out with obnoxious guys.
Cause they had the nerve to make the first move.
Girls are like sponges....they want a boyfriend and the first guy to show interest and be forceful is the one they're going to go out with.

So... what ya gotta do as a guitar player is get into a band...and be forcefull with girls... Make the first move...be cool....invite her to rehearsals....act like a star.....
You'll get the girls no problem.

Another trick is when you're playing a gig.
Start on the left hand side of the audience and look at each girl individually.
They'll look back and give you the signal they're interested..
Wait till they're alone betwee sets and make your move.
"Hi....like the show..... wanna go outside and smoke up?"
Next thing you know you're back in your hotel room.