I ended up buying him a digitech rp250, and a nice BC Rich (not the warlock). he has been plucking away with his new pedals since he got it. due to y'alls advice, my boy had a GREAT day. it will be a long time before he tires of playing with his new toy.
I also told him to save his christmas money ($250 from the grandfolks, inlaws, and outlaws) for a new amp, 'cause dad ain't spending no more.
thanks again for all the comments. i love this site, and you ppl know what ur talking about.
damon