1) Freddie Mercury (Queen) 5, 5, 5, 5 - I think Freddie fits everything you're looking for there (20/20)
2) James Hetfield (Metallica) 5, 3, 5, 5 (18/20)
3) David Bowie (...ermm...I guess Ziggy Stardust could go here..) 4, 5, 4, 5 (18/20)
4) Dave Grohl (Foo Fighter's) 5, 4, 5, 4 (18/20)
5) Josh Homme (Queens Of The Stone Age) 4, 5, 4, 4 (17/20)
6) Serj Tankian (System Of A Down) 5, 5, 3, 3 (16/20)
7) Mike Patton (Faith No More) 4, 5, 4, 3 (16/20)
8) Chris Cornell (Audioslave, ex-Soundgarden) 4, 4, 4, 3 (15/20)
9) Dexter Holland (Offspring) 3, 3, 5, 3 (14/20)
10) Brody Dalle (The Distillers) 4, 2, 4, 2 - to my knowledge she's not actually that well known... (12/20)

I've missed loads of people I'd want..right here, right now, these are the one's who spring to mind...

Let the controversy begin!!!