i think it would benefit the track to push them vocals upfront
take off a little of that reverb i reckon its drowning your vocals.
may help to thicken the vocals
up by making a duplicate copy of that Vox track and compressing
one of them 'heavily' with and eq give it a big push in the 5kHz to 8 kHz area
and a little push in low-mid range if needed. run this track alongside your original at a lower volume.
Have faith yer sound great :)
P.s if youre still worried about your vocals sounding soft (which I dont reckons an isuue but you know what your after) do a fair bit of shouting before you record I always find i have a gruffer/nicer tone after ive had a night out, which is usually because i have been talking loud or shouting over loud music most of the night and partly because a little alcohol has no doubt loosened things up ;)
alternativly check out Avox by antares ( http://www.antarestech.com/ )
That will do the trick it has a feature called throat.
Good luck