Regarding Ace, I find that post to be good. Compare your girlfriend/boyfriend to your best friend of the same sex. What's the primary difference between the two? My friend relayed it to me that the big difference is what they do behind closed doors, but past that he wouldn't take me over her and vice versa (if he was forced to choose). So there he's got two equally good friends, but one is of a different gender. It's left to his physical attraction to decide which one he wants relations with. And people being as inconsistant with opinions as they are, to say that none of them would/should be interested in the same sex like that? Balderdash.