Listen Buddy,

I know heaps of guys who play music and I, as a female, completely disagree with your assumption. Music is about soul and self not about popularity. And if you're playing music to get chicks, then that means you're not playing from the heart and people will notice that.
I feel sorry for you if you need music to get chicks, it obviously means that you have the personality of a chair leg and have absolutely nothing to offer a girl except mindless opinions.
You my friend, are very sad individual.