Hope you don't mind if I jump in here... I haven't read every single thing that everyone else has posted, but I read all your posts about the situation... Being the guy I am, I've been around plenty of these situations through high school. Alicia had feelings for Josh (i think it was, I can't even remember)... Girls are different than guys... they're complicated. She may truly like you, but she still prolly has feelings for this dude. She had a dream about kissing him... just think about what else they do in her dreams that she doesn't tell you... She probably is a sweet and innocent girl. But that kind of personality doesn't hold up well when they're faced with a situation when they, deep down inside, know they've done something wrong.... or had feelings that she know would upset you. I know that you may feel like your world will come crashing down on you if you guys break up... and that you have feelings for her. But trust me man... your boy isn't a great friend if he's gonna go behind your back with your girl... and then get all defensive about it. You're in high school... I assume you're 15-16 years old right? Well you have plenty of time to let this all play out. Play it cool for now. Observe the situation a little more... Talk to Alicia and tell her straight up how you feel about her going to this guys house... If she plays the "We're just friends" card... tell her that you and Josh are friends too...and there's no reason why you can't hang out with them. Personally... knowing what I know... I would tell her that she can hang out with him as much as she wants becuase I would be done with her. You're young man, it's not the end of the world. I thought I was gonna be with my high school sweet heart (whose name was also Alicia)... we dated for 2 and 1/2 years and broke up my freshman year in college. My girlfriend that I have now is even better looking and she doesn't have to wear 180 dollar jeans and all that stuff like Alicia (My Alicia, not yours haha) had to have. So just know that if worse comes to worse... one door closes.... and another one opens