Originally Posted by: PonyOnewith josh, well, the pool thing... whatever... i've seen female friends naked before with no sexual connotations, but, the whole pic-in-wallet thing combined with the pool and the increased time together; yeah, i'd be really suspicious. but, how long were he and sarah together, how serious were they, and when did they break up?[/QUOTE]
he and sarah were together for about a month, and they broke up almost 4 months ago. he was pretty shook up after she dumped him, but from my viewpint their relationship didn't seem very serious, they basically just made out all the time.

Originally Posted by: why don't you just tell Josh your concerns? let him know that it all seems kind of messed up to you, and ask him why he didn't invite you; tell him that it kind of pissed you off, and point out that that, combined with the whole wallet thing and the extra amounts of time they spend together all add up to make you suspicious.[/QUOTE]
I've tried to talk to him in the past, he just gets pissed at me and tells me I'm too overprotective and paranoid. I've also talked to alicia about it, she's a little nicer about it, but she assures me that she would never do anything like that to me, and I believe her.

Originally Posted by: if the worst case scenario happens and it turns out she's been cheating on you/he was taking part of it, well, at least you found two a-holes' true colors.

yes I suppose, but, they are basically my only two friends, and if that happened, I'd be pretty much all alone, and I don't even know what I'd do.

[QUOTE=]and also, if he's your friend... why don't you trust him? is it just over this, or is this a part of his personality?

it's pretty much his personality, he's always lieing or exaggerating stuff to make himself look better or whatever, you can't really tell when he's lieing to your face or telling you the truth.

[QUOTE=]i know people say "bros before hoes" but that's when your short term g/f is trying to keep you from riding motorcycles with your buds.

kinda funny actually, cause alicia won't let me get a motorcycle, but that's ok cause I know she just doesn't want me to get hurt.


but overall, I think I'm ok now, every now and then I get into a jealous mood, which is the kind of mood I was in when I wrote this... after a couple hours, they actually did call me and invite me over, I don't know why they didn't earlier, but, still, better then not at all. but I may have figured out a little bit of a pattern, see, josh today was talking to me, and he told me that I never spend time with him or talk to him anymore (which really isn't true, I spent more then 24 hours straight with him last weekend... and I talk to him on the phone at least half hour per day. but that's not how often I used to spend time with him, so maybe, he sees that I'm spending more time with alicia then I am with him, so, he's trying to get back at me by spending more time with her, or something, like that, I dunno