Originally Posted by: Renisenb
And on the point of being friends before having a more serious relationship - who gives a crap. If something 'else' is there, then something else is there. If something 'else' isn't present, then it isn't. I prefer not beating about the bush when it comes to that. I wouldn't be offended if a guy friend said he actually had more feelings for me. My reaction would depend on what my feelings were toward him and if I felt the same, but I can assure you that if I didn't have the same feelings, I'd feel awful :(

I dont think any girl would be offended by summin like that, but like you said, you would feel awful, which is what would make things change between the two people involved...one would feel embarrassed and the other,guilty...and that's just a big balls up...but should it go the other way,both of you could find an awesome relationship...

on a completely different note...
my brother is being such a wanker...all angry and grumpy...I hate such irritable people.