I think that most people who say they are against dating for some reason or another are those people who haven't had a girlfriend or boyfriend. Thats how I used to be. Saying I didn't want to have all these girlfriends and have to go through all the problems that come with them. And believe me, there were a ton of girls chasing me, and by a ton a mean anything but.. Than I found a girl that I liked and she liked me back. Things ended up not working out, but my whole not dating thing kinda went to the wayside. Its probably an excuse that people use to make themselvs feel better. Now I have so much confidence in myself it dosen't even matter.