Another word of warning. Don't get so hammered at the gig that you lose all sense of reality. While you're jokin and laffin with that cute lady; her boyfriend is out unloading your van into his. This is very common!!!!
And last but not least; check out who you invite to come jam or join the group. They may be great musicians with a habit as big as their talent. Junkies have no loyalties.
This is coming from my personal experience. Paranoia strikes deep!!
"When the power of love overcomes the love of power;we will know peace" J. Hendrix