I just txtd her saying I was upset. She asked why and I said because I was worried about her and her family. She said 'Dont worry, we'll get through it, we always do'. So Im guessing its something thats happened before or something they were expecting. I think it might be what chuck guessed, the first of the two things he said it could be.

She said something like 'Its not that I cant trust you... its just that its family stuff'. And I replied saying 'I agree- I dont need to know so dont tell me' etc.

How come life is so tough? :( Its just one thing after another with me and my girl. Its not like we argue.. its thinks in our individual lives that get each of us down and make our relatioship rocky. Neither of us have been free of worry or problems for weeks n weeks now.. so when we see each other its usually a case of one comforting the other, not two people meeting up to have fun.