Lori, I commend you on having the courage to just play in front of an audience! I've played 9 years and the most people I have played in front of was a group of about 10 people. And that was just me, no backing musicians.

Thats one reason why I've never done a live show, I've never really been in a band! But the truth is, I'm shy, nervous, etc... just like many people here have said they were/are also.

I drink a lot as it is, and alcohol does calm the nerves, but after about 5 beers it messes up my playing too which I sure dont need! So I would like to think that when/if I get my shot on stage, I'll do it sober. Its definately an experience that I would regret never doing should I die tomorrow. I like the suggestions people here have made too, ya'll rock!!