Don't let the immaturity of some on this board put you off. We're not all absent minded.

Your situation is unfortunate, but I believe it has given you the determination to really learn the guitar. There's a lot of helpful information here, and if you can't find what you need, I'm sure one of us here can help you out, or at least get you pointed in the right direction. And, as Jolly said, when pain is involved, don't push it too hard... you might be doing more harm than good. It's not a race either. Take your time with it, and learn good technique. I know you can do it ;)