Ok, i know this isnt a lovehelp forum but hey its open discussion. So this girl that I am gonna go on a date with, she doesn't want to go out to eat......why? I dont know....But she just wants to go to the movies only I guess and I am trying to find a time to kiss her, but when do you think is the best time? Or should I even.....?

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Tell her that her shoe laces are untied and when she's not looking go in for the kill.

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Whatever you do, don't eat limes. A friend of mine ate a lime once and BAM!! Two years later. Herpes.

Don't force the issue but don't be timid, if it is going well she will let you know the time is right with prolonged eye contact and smiles etc !!

Just relax and be yourself !

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Some girls are uncomfortable eating in front of guys. I'm not one of them, but I've heard my friends say it before.

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I've heard girls say that before too, Holly.

You'll know when the time is right to kiss. If the opportunity doesn't present itself, you'll just end up looking like a jackarse if you go in for the kill and she gives you the cheek.

So just be a gentleman, open the door for her, maybe bring a flower, tell her she looks nice, be courteous and respectful and you'll get what you want.

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I know a girl that doesn't eat in front of anyone unless someone else is eating.

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Whatever you do, don't eat limes. A friend of mine ate a lime once and BAM!! Two years later. Herpes.

well, I'd say, the time to kiss, is either when you're saying goodnight (you better walk her to her door!) or just what everyone else said, if you have prolonged eye contact. and it seems like she's having a good time, if she's just like "yeah, sure, whatever" to everything you say, then don't even bother. be sure to be a gentleman, and act mature. open doors, complement (but not too much otherwise she knows you are just trying to get brownie points) make sure that you pay for the whole date, do not let her spend a dime (don't be rude) but if she starts reaching into her purse, just say something like "i've got it" or "it's my treat" or something like that. umm, when you get into the movie theater, before the movie starts, talk to her, don't just be sitting there doing nothing. and, also talk to her a little bit during the movie, not a lot, but just say something everynow and then, don't try to have a full fledged conversation, but just make a joke or something every now and then, just to let her know that you're still paying attention to her. and, if the date is going good so far, then partway through the movie, or if there is a scary part or something, reach over and hold her hand.
if you're the shy type of person, and there is some awkward silence, generally most conversations start with a question or statement... so, ask her something about her self, or ask her what her favorite movie/candy/drink/etc. is just to get a conversation up and running, if there is alot of awkward silence, then you can know that you're not getting a kiss! but hey, if the date goes great, but at the end she just gives you a hug, then just accept that, maybe she isn't the type who kisses on the first date, I didn't kiss my current girlfriend until our third date. but, the best advice I can give you, though I'm sure you've heard it a million times, but that doesn't make it any less true, but, be yourself! and don't get nervous, you may be nervous, but try not to think about the fact that you are on a date or start worrying about a kiss or anything. just lay back and do what comes naturally... well... not anything that comes naturally.....

one last piece of advice......... BREATH MINTS!!!!
good luck dude, let me know how it goes

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