New Year With Girlfriend!

[Axl_Rose]

Me and my girl have bin goin thru a ruff patch and I need adivce. We are meetin up on new years eve and I wana plan sumin special and, erm.. romantic, I no this aint exactly the place to ask but am desperate! Am 20, I can drive but live with my folks! Any ideas?
Later

PS. Im being totaly serious here guys, really need your help!

[Leedogg]

How much cash can you blow?

[chucklivesoninmyheart]

A concert if possible.If not then a classy dining dealy,with a fancy hotel later for a classy good time.

[Incidents Happen]

Dump her.


:D:D:D:D

[TheDirt]

Well, I somehow survived a 2 and 1/2 year relationship a while back, and I just got out of an 8 month relationship... I'm about to give up on women altogether... (it didn't help that 4 months ago I moved 1000 miles away from my girlfriend)

Edit: I guess I should offer some advice... buy a half dozen or a dozen of her favorite flower, bring her to dinner, then go out to some secluded place. Bring a blanket and two pillows and just look at the stars while you hold her. DO NOT APPROACH THIS NIGHT EXPECTING SEX (even though you deserve it for buying flowers ;)

[Edited by TheDirt on 12-28-2003 at 10:24 PM]

[the fool]

give her something unexpected (like writing a song maybe just for her), then just go somewhere where the two of you can have a lot of fun doing activites like an amusement park or something. afterwards you can have dinner on the grass while watching the fireworks on newyear's eve.

[Zeppelin]

Originally posted by Incidents Happen
Dump her.


:D:D:D:D

rofl :D

[Axl_Rose]

I could spend a couple o hundred dollars but I dont want to. I mite go for the whole meal thing then hotel.. but isnt that a bit smutty lol? Hmm.. hotel with a balcony so when it turns new year we can see the fireworks :)
Any other ideas cos like i say i dont wana spend money :)

[Jolly McJollyson]

Originally posted by Incidents Happen
Dump her.


:D:D:D:D

That's the first I've seen you post in a while...hmm...maybe I just haven't been paying attention.

[Edited by Jolly McJollyson on 12-29-2003 at 01:54 PM]

[TheDirt]

Cook her dinner. Lots of girls like the whole metrosexual thing.

[SPL]

Originally posted by TheDirt
Cook her dinner.

Indeed, cook her a meal, and serve her a candle lit dinner. Even if you're no good as a cook, she'll appreciate the trouble you went through to try and please here.

[Axl_Rose]

wot cook her a meal at 12 midnight? shel be starvin!

[SPL]

Wait, you're asking for advice only about what to do when the clock turns to midnight? And you're trying to mend things with your girl?

Do you not have a clue whatsoever?

[the fool]

metrosexual?

[@ss_mOnKeY]

what tha? why do you still live with ur parents?(nevermind)

one thing is never ask advice from other people on how to go about fixing YOUR relationship. you gotta thing about it ur self. she's ur girlfriend. whats are the things that makes her happy? the things she loves to do. you know this S***.Do somthing special. make her remember why she first liked you in the first place. (not with expensive gifts or cheeZy S*** like that, be romantic. love dude,)



(man that sounded really gay)

[zepp_rules]

dude, how can talking about doing things for a woman sound gay ;)

[the fool]

amen mr. moderator

[TheDirt]

For whoever asked what metrosexual means, I was going to give you my own definition, but I found this clip off a webpage, and it's worded better than anything that I could come up with.

"This new word, “metrosexual”, will become more familiar in the coming months and years. What is the definition of ‘metrosexual’? It’s the description of a straight, sensitive, well-educated, urban dweller who is in touch with his feminine side and you might just find him in your salon, spa or fitness club; you’ll recognize him by his appearance and I hear these metrosexual males love your adoring stares.

Feeling and acting masculine, these men are comfortable performing Facial Magic exercises, having regular pedicures and facials. Men are finally getting the message that we women have long known – it’s perfectly okay to indulge yourself with services such as massage, facials and nail care.

No longer concerned with gender boundaries, these highly developed, secure men like to shop at fashionable stores then throw on an apron to cook for their family and friends. We welcome these ‘manly men’ as a new breed of the Renaissance man."

[the fool]

quote:
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these metrosexual males love your adoring stares.
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Is it a good thing or a bad thing?

[TheDirt]

That's the bad part of being metrosexual. They're very narcissistic people. The "being in touch with their feminine side" is the good side.

Personally, I'll continue to be a stereotypical can't cook, no fashion sense (because I don't care how I look), hard-working, masculine male.

[Lordathestrings]

Originally posted by TheDirt
... Personally, I'll continue to be a stereotypical can't cook, no fashion sense (because I don't care how I look), hard-working, masculine male. stereotype schmereotype.

I cook better than any of the girlfriends I've ever had, but I usually look like I just crawled out from under a truck.

[TheDirt]

Originally posted by Lordathestrings
but I usually look like I just crawled out from under a truck.

That makes you ok in my book ;)

[Pantallica1]

Haha, Lord, me too, me too.

Damn mechanics work. Leaves you with nothing but ****ty pay and dirty fingernails. :)

[Axl_Rose]

Ha ha yea Metrosexual is becoming a popular word in the UK too, although its early days yet as to most people you have to explain it.
Yea me n the girl are just going to a party Tonite (new years eve) although historically at every social event me n her fall out :( I love her tho cos shes a tits n ass girl n makes me feel at least almost like a rock star guitarist with the token blonde. Nah I love her n all that crap:)

[TheDirt]

Originally posted by Axl_Rose
I love her n all that crap

That sounds so sincere, lol.

[Axl_Rose]

Theres different types of love, the love you have where u just wana be together, mess about n have a laugh, hug and stare at each other, then theres the love you have for ur girl, the first was the love i have for my guitars :)

[the fool]

but what if the girl messes up with the guitars... hmmmm there's a conflict.

[the fool]

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Originally posted by TheDirt
That's the bad part of being metrosexual. They're very narcissistic people. The "being in touch with their feminine side" is the good side. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

And how are they narcisstic again? sorry- it's a new concept.

[TheDirt]

Many of them care about their image very much to the point where they begin to like their own image. Many people that look really good are self-infatuated, y'know? That's definately not all of them, though, just a stereotype.

[iamthe_eggman]

Originally posted by the fool
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Originally posted by TheDirt
That's the bad part of being metrosexual. They're very narcissistic people. The "being in touch with their feminine side" is the good side. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

And how are they narcisstic again? sorry- it's a new concept.




You know, it looks much nicer when you use the quote button underneath the post you want to quote. Like what I just did above. Just a little note, nothing serious.

[the fool]

Eggman
- nah, no offense taken. thanx for the advice. you're always helpful.

TheDirt
- Wow. Ok, now, I'm trying to visualize it. Is a metrosexual dude someone like that Reggie character from Archie?

[ketsueki15]

i would never let my girlfriend touch my guitars unless she had some idea of how to use one..especially my new Gibson :)
if she happen to break one of them then all hell would break loose...lol
do what you think is best for the relationship
my 2 cents

[the fool]

I think that's the main reason I broke up with my ex gf- she touched one of my guitars so she had to go. I remember Dirt saying that nothing is sacred to him but I'm pretty sensitive with my guitars.

[the fool]

Makes me wonder... can you be metrosexual towards guitars? I think I'm metrosexual towards my guitars...

[Lordathestrings]

Originally posted by the fool
Makes me wonder... can you be metrosexual towards guitars? I think I'm metrosexual towards my guitars... Nah. Metrosexual is about appearances. Like a "Gay View For A Straight Dude" kinda BS. Dropping a chick for touching your axe seems kinda harsh, y'know, but hey, it's your call.

[Axl_Rose]

Hey ketsueki15 what gibson did u get?
Ive hit my girl on the head twice with gibson guitars, I was standing up and she was kneely down :) ...oops was that rude?
Well anyway new year was a success, my girl was ill so I hooked up with sum chick I met on msn, she lives roud the raod from me :)

HAPPY NEW YEAR - n all that crap :)

[Death55]

What ... You cant just go off with another girl if your girlfriend is ill. I suppose as long as you didnt get this girl to kneel down as well :)

[ketsueki15]

its a gibson les paul special
whats all this **** that "i want to do something special for her" then go off with another girl..some people are messed up

[Axl_Rose]

Oh jeez gimmie a break, I love her n all that crap, but am i supposed to be lonely on new year!

[the fool]

ketsueki15

Cool! I wish I can afford a gibson but i'm so broke. maybe if i become a rockstar...

Axl_rose

Now, that's what I call a Happy New Year! lol
As they say, it's good to keep spares. Good thinking.

[Axl_Rose]

Yea lol thanks to the wonders of technology its easy to find emergency girlfriends at short notice!

http://www.faceparty.com :) awesome! Anyone here on this? Im http://www.faceparty.com/stud_nuffin